Specialties

Low/Discrepant Desire

Having low or inhibited sexual desire is the most prevalent of all sexual problems coming to sex therapy (33.3% of women and 15.8% of men)*, leaving desire discrepancies between partners to be the second most prevalent (more than 50% of couples)*. If you’re single, you might feel disappointed and frustrated over your low desire as it may interfere with your solo-pleasure, self-esteem, and self-identity. If you’re in a relationship, you may feel to blame or you might feel your partner is to blame. The truth is, no one is to blame. It’s best to view this as a partner issue as the goal is to come together as a team to rekindle the sexual pleasure between you. There are ways to address low desire, strategies to bridge the gap between partners and integrate new ways of being intimate as well as deriving sexual pleasure and satisfaction. As I’ve successfully helped both individuals and couples with low/discrepant desire, I hope to help you reignite this flame too.

*National Health and Social Life Survey (1992)